Isn't love the most beautiful feeling in this world?
Too cliché, right?
We're humans and we make mistakes, that's our saving grace. We get annoyed, we get jealous, we put our ego on a pedestal. I think it is what that affects our relationships and not love. Even apart from this, I can think of a million things that affect relationships- distance, social lives, busy work schedules and whatnot. Love is flawless, it is us who make it imperfect.
To me, love is a simple concept: unconditional care towards each other and nothing but affection. If only we'd keep our ego aside and tell each other everything, it would be so much easier, wouldn't it? Over the past few months, I've learnt that the more we try to keep our feelings in the dark, the worse it gets. Then, why do we tend to hide our feelings? What are we afraid of? Rejection, is it? What we don't understand is that you cannot make someone love you, if they don't. You cannot make their heart feel something that they cant.
It is a natural feeling and manipulating it, is like manipulating nature and that is not right. It'll take time to form a bond of 'love'. We need to understand that you cannot fall in love with someone in minutes, it takes time. It takes time to develop the feelings of 'affection'. Being rejected can be the "fall" in "falling in love". And it's fine. Without risks, there is no love.
I'm no 'love guru' but I do know that love will overpower all emotions and we all will have our happy endings.
Love isn't sad, love isn't difficult- love is being content, love is beautiful.
Too cliché, right?
We're humans and we make mistakes, that's our saving grace. We get annoyed, we get jealous, we put our ego on a pedestal. I think it is what that affects our relationships and not love. Even apart from this, I can think of a million things that affect relationships- distance, social lives, busy work schedules and whatnot. Love is flawless, it is us who make it imperfect.
To me, love is a simple concept: unconditional care towards each other and nothing but affection. If only we'd keep our ego aside and tell each other everything, it would be so much easier, wouldn't it? Over the past few months, I've learnt that the more we try to keep our feelings in the dark, the worse it gets. Then, why do we tend to hide our feelings? What are we afraid of? Rejection, is it? What we don't understand is that you cannot make someone love you, if they don't. You cannot make their heart feel something that they cant.
It is a natural feeling and manipulating it, is like manipulating nature and that is not right. It'll take time to form a bond of 'love'. We need to understand that you cannot fall in love with someone in minutes, it takes time. It takes time to develop the feelings of 'affection'. Being rejected can be the "fall" in "falling in love". And it's fine. Without risks, there is no love.
I'm no 'love guru' but I do know that love will overpower all emotions and we all will have our happy endings.
Love isn't sad, love isn't difficult- love is being content, love is beautiful.
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